Typically when we start a self-care/love journey. We begin to feel so much better and want to shout it from the rooftops. We share the information with our parents, kids, friends, and spouses and try to pull others along with us so that we can reap the benefits together. Sometimes we don’t feel that we can go it alone and want to bring along a “buddy” for “help” or “accountability.” If you don’t have the right person with you, trying to save others can be more of a hindrance than a help.